So let's talk about how fabulous my kid
is. Yesterday was his 14th birthday! Ok, well, what's the
big deal about turning 14 you may ask? For Colby, it's a huge,
fabulous, over-the-top big deal. You see, when Colby was diagnosed
with Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA) Type I when he was 4 months old,
we were told he would probably die when he was between 18-24 months
old. That is a horrific statistic to hear about your sweet baby boy.
I was determined from the day we received his diagnosis that I would
give Colby a fighting chance at a decent life. And not to pat myself
on the back or anything, I've done a damn good job. With an enormous
amount of help from other SMA families, specialists at Cincinnati
Children's, therapists here locally, the most supportive family and
friends ever, and a whole lot of determination on Colby's part, too,
of course. I'm very proud of Colby. He's a fighter. He has made it
through surgeries and illnesses that most of us will never have to
worry about enduring. And through it all, he has kept a sweet, funny,
stubborn personality that makes me laugh and cry at the same time
sometimes. I know I gripe a lot about nursing, not getting the
supplies we need for Colby, and other day-to-day frustrations that
come along with his care. But I wouldn't trade it, no freaking way. I
treasure every moment I have with him, even when he's being a typical
eye-rolling, extremely stubborn teenager. I love him so much. I hope
to have another 14+ years with him.
We're celebrating his birthday in a
couple of different ways. We didn't get to do anything yesterday
specifically but have done some other stuff lately. He went bowling
with his St X buddies a couple of weeks ago. They are so good with
Colby! I'm so happy they have stayed in touch. Nurse David and I took
Colby to see TMNT2 last week. Colby really liked the movie. We go to
Cincy Monday night for Colby's sleep study. Super yuck! But he hasn't
had one in 5 years, so he's due. Then Tuesday while we're up there
Grandpa, Colby and I are going to the Newport Aquarium. And, at a
date to be determined in the near future, we'll have family and
friends over for cake and ice cream. It was originally scheduled for
tomorrow. But due to circumstances beyond my control, I had to cancel
and reschedule. More about that later. Today he has pet therapy.
Every time Luna comes to visit, she makes me want to get a dog for
Colby. Then I see all those funny pics on Facebook where dogs do
something horrible and/or disgusting and the owner puts a sign around
the dog's neck and takes a pic. That's all I need around here, a
trash-eating, poop-rolling, eat-anything dog screwing up my life. So
for now, we'll just visit with Luna every other Saturday until I
completely lose my mind and get Colby a dog.
THANK YOU to everyone who sent a text
to Colby or wished him happy birthday on Facebook. I've made sure
he's read all of them. Hopefully that child understands just how much
he is loved by so many people. Here are a couple of recent pics. I
forgot to post the one on July 4th - the little
pyromaniac! I was worried he would be scared to have fireworks that
close to him, but he was all boy and loved them. Next year we're
going to Grandma and Grandpa Kenny's for fireworks. They have a
bigger, safer back yard than we do. The other pic is from Thursday
night, his last day of being a 13 year old. Look at that sweet face!
Happy 14th Birthday, Colby Michael. You are my amazing,
strong, funny, stubborn, sweet boy and I am so very lucky to be your
mama!!
Awesome kid and mom
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